Monday, 28 January 2013

IDF Shows Its Appreciation With Open Hearts


IDF Shows Its Appreciation With Open Hearts

We arrived at the IDF office, ready to travel to Bana for the closing.  To our surprise, IDF had Golf Shirts especially made with CESO, the Rotary Club of Truro, IDF and ‘A Rewarding, Valorising and Sustaining Partnership, CESO-IDF on the back.  They remembered everyone, CESO, Rotary Club of Truro, Marian, and our family with each golf shirt placed in a bag made in the Cameroon.  What a lovely surprise.  As well, Oussematou had invited a lady who makes jewellery to have a display at the office.  Lydia chose several necklaces to take back to Canada.  Oussematou plans to have workshops where this lady will train women to make beads from paper and teach them to crochet coverings for wooden beads. 

Terence again travelled separately.  We stopped at Winsoft in Bafoussam.  Paul Yemele, Winsoft owner, teacher and member of the Rotary Club of Bafoussam was still at school.  His cell phone was turned off.  Lydia was able to transfer pictures of the renovations at GS Illum and the opening of the school direct to the Winsoft computer.Yemele called later to thank us and to inquire about the possibility of a Farm Field School/Nutrition program for Bafoussam area.  The two Bafoussam ladies from Dchang that attended the FFS/Nutition workshops in Bana (at our invitation) were very excited about the program and want  the workshops to be held in  their area(s) as well.

After the stop in Bafoussam, on we travelled to Bana.  This time, rather than at the Calypso in nearby Bafang, we stayed at the Bana Hotel (CEHOTOBA) (where we stayed last year) and where the final closing and our send-off was held on Saturday.  Right away, Oussematou was off to organize things for the following day. Once again, she is leading by example to encourage a community (her own home village in fact) to care for those in need. Psycho-social engineering is what she likes to call it.
Remember, there are no social safety nets whatsoever in this country (For those who do not have paid job and those who have not been ensure in the social insurance. Some community insurance are going on in some town now and are stii very weak) IDF works with the Psycho-Social needs of the community. One of the purposes of the program on this day was to attempt to prod the conscience of the community through those attending, to demonstrate care for those in their midst who are especially in need.  Three special  guests had been invited to the closing:  a 66 year old diabetic man (former catechist Mr Louis  who is terminally ill, becoming blind man in his 90’s Mr Weladji Jean  deaf, diabetic and hypertensive also, no child and living alone who often goes several days without food and a single woman Odette Nansi who is the mother of seven children and is terribly stigmatized by the community, her family including her parents . The woman (Odette) arrived. She was rather shabbily dressed but Oussematou was prepared and had a new dress created for her.  A nutrition workshop participant Mrs Ngassa helped Odette get dressed. These three people each were presented with 25 kg of rice, five large bars of soap, a tooth brush and tooth paste, boxes of matches to light fire and lamp and other essentials.  Each was brought to the front and introduced.  The 66 year old was totally devoid of any extra flesh.  His shoulders and knees were protruding bones.  There were many round bumps on his arms and legs.  His ribs and collar bone protruded under his shirt.  He literally cried from diabetic nerve pain.  Later Allan gave Oussematou Ibuprofen (from the drug store at home) and this was to be divided up between the two men.  The 94 year old is becoming blind and had to be led to the front.  After Oussematou’s very persuasive appeal, including her own brand of scolding and gentle admonishment, all sat down to an excellent feast prepared by the hotel kitchen staff.  Each of them brought back home a packet of food enough for two dinners. She told us later that she had talked with the hotel management who agreed to regularly deliver food (leftovers presumably) from the kitchen to the one individual (the oldest man) who lives right in back of the hotel and goes for days at a time without eating. 

 
 
The mother of seven children, Odette, was extremely withdrawn and  would not look up.  Oussematou will work with her over the next year and get her involved in the farm project.  Oussematou feels that she will develop self esteem and grow to be proud of herself.  So important for her to feel good about herself so she can help her seven children grow to be effective members of society.  Oussematou is also giving Odette a role, volunteering at first, to regularly visit the two men and help them as a community volunteer.

We told Oussematou about our Food Bank, how large quantities are divided into small portions and given out over a period of time.   

A lady travelled 12 hours to come to the closing.  Again, Oussematou had a motive, to make the community more aware of HIV AIDS, to encourage each and every person to be tested and know their status and take action if positive and be preventative regardless.  This woman Shey is from the community of Kumbo.  She got tested and found herself positive.  As a responsible individual, she moved ahead to encourage her family, her friends and relatives to get tested.  At that time, like the community of Bana now, her community was not aware, was not promoting testing for HIV AIDS and not encouraging the use of anti retro viral drugs.  This person has moved the community of Kumbo forward to test, treat, prevent and reduce stigmatization.   This is the reason she travelled 24 hours (here and back) on rough roads-to help mobilize Bana to action, reduce stigmatization, test and treat when necessary.

As well as being HIV positive, she is diabetic and hypertensive.  She attended Lydia’s seminar on Nutrition in Bamenda and found the day very helpful.  She takes medication for HIV but must cope with diabetes and hypertension with diet only.  She found the dietary discussion for each helpful:  avoid salt, do not eat fufu dipped in salt and palm oil.  Rather, emphasize the Protective and Body Builders.  She wears dark glasses to help her eyes. 
It was great to see the participants of the FFS and the Nutrition Workshop.  The three government department people (The sub delegates of Agriculture of Bana and Bafang respectively Philippe Mouandjo and Jean Wouapi, the surveillant General of the Bana Hospital  and the Pastor of the Baptist Church of Bana Pastor Moses  Jab (what they call sub-delegates) attended from the Ministries of Agriculture and Health. 

Again, IDF surprised Allan and Lydia by taking them to another room and dressing them in the full costume of the Chief and (one) of his Wives.  The garments are all hand embroidered, very colorful with matching four cornered hat and headdress and complete with traditional hand painted pottery beads, artistically strung by Oussematou.   

 
They presented Allan and Lydia with two yam tubers and  a cassava tuber from the women of Wum.  The women carried a big bag of raw yam cassava to Bamenda for Allan and Lydia to take to Canada????  Ground nuts, about 15 pounds from GS Illum school, kola nut from Kumbo (a sign of respect). Also, a lovely wall hanging, three meters of wax dyed fabric from the Baptist group, (a cow horn drinking container,  a gift from IDF, a rattle  along with an incredible song especially prepared for the event by the Baptist Church participants. 

This was all followed by a feast for all:  chicken, fish, pork, yam, cassava, huckleberry, jama-jama, plantain, , Irish potatoes, rice and watermelon.  We had a ‘family’ picture taken, then one with the leaders and special guests.


             

With warm full hearts, we bid farewell.  What wonderful people.  What a great approach IDF has to community development! 

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