Women Working To Better Their Lives
and the Lives of Others
One cannot help but marvel at the ways some women help to
better the lives of other women in their communities. Here are a few examples of several such women
we met during February 2013 while doing volunteer work in Ferrol Municipality on
Tablas Island/Romblon Province in the Philippines. Each story
is unique and we hope conveys the admiration that we feel for the
resourcefulness and support that these women give to each other, their families
and their communities. We certainly were
very much inspired by their ready willingness to share with us. Perhaps they
can be an inspiration to you as well.
Maricris
–Vice President of Tablas Women Livelihood
Association (TAWLA)
Through our workshops, it was Maricris
who took care of the day to day details, including things like participant
registration each day, ensuring placement of tables and chairs, and even staying
with us to ensure that we had transport back to Bonsoran/Binucot Beach that
evening when our transport/driver didn’t appear. Maricris has recently completed her Rudolf Steiner/ Waldorf Teacher training given by a Waldorf
educator from Germany. She took the role
of a true teacher in tabulating daily attendance and organizing other details
essential for each day’s program to run well.
Maricris
is a skilled weaver and operates a small sari sari store. Her husband is a carpenter and her son is a
commercial artist. Her son helped us by
doing excellent calligraphy work for the graduating certificates, completing each
name to perfection. As well, he
surprised us by hand painting an original beach scene on one of his mother’s
hand woven baskets. This has great potential
for tourist sales with original designs for resorts, beaches and other features
of Tablas Island.
Maricris also arranged several field visits over a number of days for us to see
a few of the participants at work in their home settings. She travels by motorbike taxi, jeepney or
sometimes rides her husband’s bicycle. During
our workshop series, Maricel ‘s uncle
died and most of her extended family went to Manila for the funeral. This left
her with additional responsibilities to care for and feed a bed ridden uncle at
home. But she still managed to ensure
that the workshops went well. Hers is a
strong family showing many talents. Maricris works very hard in an effort to
better the lives of her family members and also the lives of others in her
community.
Maricel: President of TAWLA
Each workshop day we picked up Maricel and her dear little baby
girl at home next to the fish farm some 4-5 km. from Ferrol Poblacion. On day
one she showed us her hand woven bags made from recycled jelly powder mix bags
or snack bags discarded and recycled.
Some while back a volunteer showed women in her community how to cut
these bags into small strips, fold and weave them into different sized sturdy,
water proofed bags.
During our workshops, Maricel managed to learn and apply new
skills, all the while giving the best of care to her little one. Even while
they were so involved in the 10 workshop series, it amazed us to see these mothers put their little ones as
number one, thereby helping each other to participate equally in workshop
activities.
We were fortunate to meet Maricel and her family one day while
they were out for a Sunday afternoon adventure.
In the other photo she proudly displays her workshop group’s ‘golden
rooster’.
In the photos below, Maricel was our tour guide for the final two of our particpant field visits: Art work from marble
dust and soap making
Criszel:
An exceptionally talented young mother is Criszel who introduced
us to her brand of innovation in the workshops.
Criszel trained as a Massage Therapist on Borocay Island. She has
computer skills which she was able to use for the workshops, both on her own
and in collaboration with the group in which she participated. She has great
potential for independent enterprise and also for promising group work in future.
She was always willing to try new techniques and new lettering. Here are some of her creations. The first is
drying on the back of the baby carriage before the stencils were removed!
A Big Surprise for Lydia on Certificate Awards Day: Unbeknownst to Lydia, this group under Criszel’s leadership
designed and painted identical t-shirts on their days off from the workshops. In the first photo below Criszel is first on the left and in the
second one is last on the right. One
thing so pleasing to Lydia is that Criszel is on email and says she’ll be able
to check it once a month and thereby keep us updated on how they are doing. During
our stay in the Philippines, it is this group that was referred to the Tablas
Fun Resort on a special assignment to
design and produce a promotional type t-shirts for the resort.
Candy:
When visiting Candy at her home on Binucot Beach Lydia felt very
discouraged to see this Philippino woman with her infirm husband slumped over
in a wheelchair. Candy proudly showed us
her wedding picture of her some 35 years ago when she married this man from
Holland. Over the years they’ve made a
life together in this community overlooking the mangrove next to Villa
Michaela’s where we stayed for the month of February. Candy showed us the marble chip work her son
had done in school, introduced us to her elderly mother living with her, her
sons, her sisters and brothers and numerous other family members all living on
the property. Unique to this visit was
their collection of golden roosters which, when shown to the group, produced
quite a few variations of this unique Tablas Island wild rooster! It was
not until several days later did Lydia realize what may be the impact of the
workshops on Candy’s life. Almost before
day one was finished, Candy said that she was so appreciative of being
introduced to something for her to do at home that she enjoyed. So it began.
Candy right away mobilized her resources. She got her son to help her with lettering,
computer graphics and painting techniques.
Right away she travelled by motorcycle taxi to Odiongan (nearly ¾ hour away) to buy t-shirts and paint supplies
to work on her own. She made Lydia’s day
many times but the first was when she
arrived wearing an embossed t-shirt that she and her son had done of Sunset
Beach. The design was unique and the
lettering even moreso. Each day she
could hardly wait to show us what their work from the previous day and evening
had produced. One day she came saying
that today she couldn’t show us the latest t-shirt because her husband had
refused to take it off!
The day following our encouragement for the participants to
try and sell their t-shirts, Candy arrived at the Villa where we were staying
with her sales strategy planned. We
stayed out of the way. Michaela
immediately gave Candy an idea for a design she wanted. Candy and her son went to work, returning
several days later with a couple of samples.
This time we were able to see her in action with the staff giving their
input! It surprised us a few days later
to see her having butterflies while waiting to make her sales pitch
Michaela.
What a delight! What a thrill to see her turn from shy to
enthusiastic and beaming with reluctant confidence. This is life changing for
her. As Allan says, “if we only help one
it still is worthwhile.”
When we left, we left our printer with Candy as her son has
a computer. With this she will be able
to print out designs for other members of TAWLA.
Cecile
Our initial contact with TAWLA was through its organizer,
retired Social Worker from the University of Manila Faculty of Social Work and
native of Tablas Island, Cecile. In
their family trips to the island, Cecile was noticing many unemployed but
skillful women and, as she says, like any life-seasoned social worker, she has
chosen to give of her time to facilitate the organization of Tablas Women
Livelihood Association. Thanks to her efforts, TAWLA now has formal
legal status and shows good potential to help improve these women’s lives.
Pictured below we meet some of these women for the first
time with Cecile. At this point, Cecile was realizing that the small barangay
hall initially planned for our workshops was not going to be adequate for the
growing group of interested women. Some new members joining were the mothers of Cash Assistance
Program of the Department of Social Welfare and Development (DSWD) who receive
PhP 1,500. monthly ($1.25/day Canadian) for the entire family (on average 7 to 10 members).
Cecile worked with members of the municipality’s social services
team and Mayor Jason helped to arrange for a large meeting room for the
workshop.
Fluent in Tagalo, the
local dialect, Cecile helped to supplement Allan’s illustrated marketing
presentations and workshop exercises.
Cecile works quietly behind the scenes to help better the
lives of the members of TAWLA.
This is not the only social development initiative that
Cecile and family members are involved in.
Cecile is Chris Bock’s Mother In Law.
Chris, who is always looking to help in very positive ways, has
purchased a building that will house a Day Care/ Kindergarden Waldorf Center as
well as a Tourism Training Center in which they plan to display local crafts. We did manage to visit the building later
during our stay:
Mila, School Health Nurse
Sometimes somethings are just meant to happen. One day when Allan was at the printers, he began talking with a Mila. It was not long before he directed her to come to the school supplies store where she found Lydia. You can imagine the common interests these two have! Lydia invited Mila to come and speak to the 43 women at the workshop. The morning Mila was to come, the weather was terrible (heavy wind and rain). Would you believe, Mila arrived, the women arrived and Lydia invited Mila to speak to the women. First, though, we reviewed the food pyramid with the ladies and gave Mila a copy of the food models so she will be able to use them in her work. We then talked about Food Safety, looked at videos on nasty microorganisms and Mila then talked to the young mothers about diarrehea and babies, how dangerous it is and how to treat it. Mila spoke to the women in their dialect, Tagalo which they really appreciated.
Lydia and Mila exchanged email addresses. Lydia wrote Mila, asking her to tell about her life and her work. Here is an exert from Mila's letter to Lydia describing her life......
I got my Bachelor of Science in Nursing in Philippine Union College now called Adventist University of the Philippines at Silang Cavite.I had my training in the college where I studied, with its aim to Train for Service
We were exposed to work in the community like giving health lectures,to pregnant women,home health care,parenting and other issues pertaining healthy lifestyle,drug prevention and control, I love to talk to mothers about nutrition,
I worked as a nurse at Manila Adventist Medical Center at Pasay from 1981 to 1985, then I have a chance to work also in Saudi Arabia from 1985 to 1991 at ALbaha Hospital. During the Gulf War I decided to return home for good,
1991 month of May I started to work in the Department of Education as a School Nurse.
In school , I learned to love children,taking care not only the physical condition but treating them as a whole person, the physical, emotional,social and mental aspect.In here, I was exposed to different emotional problems of children, im so blessed I had good parents .
I also found joy visiting their homes, especially those families with sick members, I give health teachings, and much more comfort them and pray for the sick.It`s a joy serving people, I may not be that rich, when it comes to money but then, Me and my family are happy when we give our time to people who need visits and comfort.That`s all we have and be able to give our concern and compassion especially the poor ones.
I worked in Odiongan North District at Batiano,Odiongan Romblon near the Pier.
I been working with the pupils in school for at least 21 years now and I discovered a lot of problems not only physical, but emotional ,I mean children who are in a dysfunctional families,like separation of parent, alcoholic parents abusive it can be verbal and physical, Children who dont eat 3 times a day because of poverty, children who are under the care of other people because the mother went away ,Oh name it and I meet all this kind of Problems, rape and incest also,
Sometimes I have a sleepless night thingking if how can I be a good nurse to help those children, I m blessed I have my family and my children who have also a passion like me sometimes they go visit the families sing to them and pray for them .
I think I told you a lot of things mam But i was just so emotional when I talk about children.
Mam lydia I have no picture this time cause I dont Have a camera , but I will try to send you one.
Il be sending you also some of my pictures during my visitation and those children, I do my extension of duty after work in school.
Thank you to Mila for sharing with us. So appreciated! For all of us who work or have worked with children and families, this goes right to the heart of our feelings for what is so important in life and why the work we have done and are doing is so meaningful to us.